Instead of asking "Why me?" ask "What can I learn?".

I'm sure that many of us (if not all of us reading this) have had trials and storms in our lives where we've responded with the question, "WHY ME?????" Now I don't think that necessarily asking this is a bad thing. I think that if we wallow, and we dwell on it, and we suffer unneccessarily it can be a bad thing - but I think that if we take that question and turn it around a little bit we can learn a lot in each and every trial - even in the middle of the trial and not just looking back.

Instead of asking "Why me?" ask "What can I learn?".